Friday, October 19, 2012

Wrestling with God Genesis 32:22-31


Sermon  Nuggets Mon Oct 15 

Verses Gen 32:22-24 22 That night Jacob got up and took his two wives, his two maidservants and his eleven sons and crossed the ford of the Jabbok.23 After he had sent them across the stream, he sent over all his possessions. 24 So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak. 

Wrestling with God

When I was a youngster I would wrestle with my brother. It was not by any rules and I certainly wouldn’t call it a sport. It was sometimes play, but often our childish ways to express anger toward siblings. Our squabbles would escalate from verbal put downs, to physical scrapping.

Also during the late 50s and early 60s I watched wrestling on TV. I came to realize that wasn’t really a sport as much as it was entertainment for many who wanted to watch a fight. After awhile personalities were developed to have good guys and bad guys that people would want to see get beaten up. I did not continue to watch for it was so fake. 

The nation was refocused on professional wrestling when Jesse Venturia, the Body, was elected to be our governor of the state of Minnesota. Tough guy persona followed him into office where he would speak his mind and sound intimidating to his opponents. But this was far different than the sport we see in school or at the Olympics. Competition over strength with rules and regulations and strategy make competition a positive activity. Yelling and bullying, threats and prideful statements takes a different avenue. WWF makes lots of money when they realize people come to see celebrities tell a story with all the flash and dazzle of entertainment.

            Now it may surprise you that the first wrestling match every recorded is in the Bible. You will find that the match was between an angel and Jacob. Last week we talked about how Jacob was trying to make peace with his brother, Esau whom he hasn’t seen in over 20 years. The last conversation they had, Esau vowed to kill his twin brother Jacob and when he heard there were 400 people coming he was petrified. Jacob sought reconciliation, he sought restitution with his gifts, he prayed but now it was the night before they were to met. He could not sleep, so he got up, roused his household and moved them all across the river.

Now Jacob was left alone. Suddenly out of the dark a hand seized him. Was it a wandering bandit, or a member of Esau’s household? Was this a murderer or one of the jealous brothers in law? He found himself in hand-to hand combat, wrestling grimly as if his life depended on it.

Who was this intruder? Vs. 28 says that he wrestled with God. If you read in Hosea 12:4  says ‘He struggled with the angel and overcame him; he wept and begged for his favor, He found him at Bethel and talked with him there- the Lord God Almighty, the Lord is his name of renown.”  Some believe like the unknown visitor with Abraham this was the pre-incarnate revelation of Jesus. Perhaps he was. Either way Jacob fought God.

The struggle was not a dream or a nightmare. Never has a man awakened from such a “dream” with a limp! And it was a struggle, which God Himself initiated: “Then Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him until daybreak” (32:24).
           
 Interestingly God was not coming to him to comfort him but to confront him. In this wrestling match it was not Esau who opposed Jacob, but it was God Himself. Notice the Bible did not tell us that God could not overcome Jacob, only that he did not. God had come to confront Jacob with some truth. God forced him to wrestle with the issues that had brought him here.

What are issues you are struggling with today? Do you feel at times you are in conflict with some of God’s principles? Do you feel as if to follow the Lord is a wrestling match over your will and His will? How would you describe some of your confrontations with God and His truth?

When Jacob met with the Lord in this match he was never the same.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Tues Oct 16 – 

Gen 32:7 In great fear and distress Jacob divided the people who were with him into two groups, and the flocks and herds and camels as well. 

Facing His Fear

What are you afraid of? Sometimes the only way to get rid of our fears is to finally face up to the weaknesses within us. I think one of the things we wrestle with most is fear. We might wrestle with our emotions on the inside. We fear what others think or might say, or do to us. We might wrestle with fears of losing a job or break up of family or loss of house for financial reasons.

            Fear can paralyze us. Our imaginations can run wild as to all the things that could happen. Liberties are limited when we center so much of our thinking on protection  from possible attack that we do not pursue our dreams or risk adventure.

            I remember one missionary being asked a question in our church. Because of reports of danger in the country to which she was to return a member asked, “Aren’t you afraid of going back?” Her reply was, “If God called me there, I’d be afraid not to return.”

            There are people who refuse to share their faith because of fear. Who fail to go where God wants them to go because of what family or friends will say. Who are reluctant to tithe or give generously because of the fear of the economy. There are people who refuse to do projects for the fear of failure. And people who refuse to reach out to the needs of others for the fear of being taken advantage of.

            I read on Facebook yesterday a post that said, “Fear has two meanings: Forget everything and run or Face everything and rise.”

            Sometimes facing our fears is also a spiritual issue. It is not only finding the comfort, peace and rest in knowing God more, but struggling, suffering and being in conflict finding a stronger faith because of our situations that he sees us through it. Instead of yielding to fear and escaping the battle Jacob arises to face the foe and finds the one he is struggling with is God who was making him victorious.

            When we were raising  Judi’s sister, we were young. Married only 6 months and I struggled with the role of being a father figure yet a brother-in-law to a teenager. One afternoon we had a confrontation. She had bought a T-shirt that had one of those mixed messages on it. I said she needed to return it and not wear it because even though it had a different meaning to her it was not what others thought when they read it. She resented me for making her return it and ran away. It was one of the worst feelings of my life. I thought of her safety. I questioned if I should have just let her wear it. It was the first time I felt as if a knife was plunged into the stomach and was twisted around.

I felt a mixture of anxiety, fear, worry, and confusion as to what to do. I didn't know if I should call the police. Instead, I jumped into the car and rode around wondering if I should be glad to find her, or mad because of her stupidity. I called friends who didn't see her. Finally, several hours later I found her. The next day I realized I was wrapped up on fear of failure, inadequacy, and confronted by the Lord. I needed to face my fear and do what is right even if the consequences didn't come out that well. I needed to take responsibility for the role that was given to me to do the best I can do but leaving the results to the Lord. I realized in my prayer that her sister is not primarily my responsibility. She is God’s responsibility and what I needed to do was obey and follow God and provide Spiritual input to the best of my ability and I had to give her over to the Lord to take care of.

What Jacob did not realize was that he did not have to connive and scheme in order to obtain the promised blessings of God. Jacob was mistaken if he reasoned that Esau was the barrier to his entrance into Canaan and the blessings of God.        He needed to face his fears and realize that God was in charge of the situation and he also needed just to trust and obey for there is no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey.            

Pastor Dale

Sermon Nuggets Weds Oct 17 

Gen 32:25-30 -  When the man saw that he could not overpower him, he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip so that his hip was wrenched as he wrestled with the man. 26 Then the man said, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.”
But Jacob replied, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.”
27 The man asked him, “What is your name?”
“Jacob,” he answered.
28 Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with men and have overcome.”
29 Jacob said, “Please tell me your name.”
But he replied, “Why do you ask my name?” Then he blessed him there.
30 So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “It is because I saw God face to face, and yet my life was spared.”


Facing His Frailty.
  
            How could God possibly imply, much worse clearly state, that Jacob had contended with Him and won? How can man prevail over God? And how can it be said that Jacob contended with men and won? Indeed, all of his efforts at self-help were wrong. Genesis 32 is the pivotal chapter so far as Jacob’s life is concerned. He is a vastly different man here from the person we have come to know in previous chapters.
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At this point the Angel disabled Jacob by dislocating his hip. This would be devastating to a wrestler. It would be like breaking the arm of a quarterback or the leg of a running back. Jacob was now unable to wage an offensive battle. He was helpless. All he could do now was to cling defensively in desperation. And this he did.

Jacob, at the very point of being incapacitated, seemed to gain the upper hand. The Angel pleaded with him to be let go, for the dawn was breaking. It looks as though the Angel did not wish to be seen in the daylight. The Angel implied to Jacob that he now had the winning edge (contrary to the reality of the dislocated hip). Jacob was tested and now encouraged to make a request of the Angel.

There are some that say this passage teaches us to wrestle with matters in prayer until God answers them. Well that might be good advice, but that really isn’t the meaning behind what happened. Like a butterfly seeking to break out of his cocoon, so Jacob is gaining strength of a different sort in this contest that is all planned of God.  Jacob is not on the offense, but the defense. His is clinging to Him in helpless dependence, not by trying to manipulate Him. He won not because he was the victor over the fight, but that he overcame the things in his own life that needed to be faced and God granted him the blessing that he wanted to give him all along. His life was spared and he realized that in vs. 28.

Have you ever had God wrestle with you when you have wanted your way or were persisting in some course that you knew displeased Him? I imagine you have since most of us have fought with God at some point in our Christian experience.  Isn’t that like sin? It refuses to give up. We have a hard time giving it up. Perhaps it is pride, or self-control, or plans or purposes that we have with our lives instead of yielding them to God.

Now I do not know all the answers as to why God touched his hip. But have you ever have your life put out of joint by God? Have you ever had your plans dislocated? You were trying to do something contrary to Gods’ will and suddenly out of the blue, God use sickness or loss of job or severe setback or a disappointment or bring you to the end of yourself and turn you to Him. I do not suggest that every sickness, loss or disappointment comes because we are out of the will of God. He sometimes has other purposes with these things, but sometimes, just sometimes he sues them to bring us to our senses.

            Charles Wesley expressed the clinging nature of faith in his hymn “Jesus Lover of My soul”  “Other refuge have I none, Hang my helpless soul on Thee; Leave ah leave me not alone, Still support and comfort me. All my trust on thee is stayed All my help from Thee I bring. Cover my defenseless head with the shadow of thy wing. “

It was not God’s intent to beat Jacob, but to bring him blessing by being on the throne instead of self. With a touch of his finger he could have destroyed Jacob’s life, but he didn't  His life is spared and he is blessed. The God, who had wrestled with Jacob, now walks with Jacob through life and wrestles for Jacob. With great relief and gratitude he acknowledges that he had been spared through God's gracious goodness, when all he deserved was to have been crushed thoroughly and completely. He had always thought of himself as a self-made man, a person who was in control of his life, but now he realizes that in God’s eyes he wasn’t some great hero of earth-shaking significance after all.

Sometimes God uses calamity, tragedy, or danger in our life so that we have no choice but to cast ourselves on His mercy. Sometimes God uses unemployment, bankruptcy, or poverty in our life so that we will cast our cares on him. Sometimes God uses conflict, struggle, or fights in our life so that we will look to him. Sometimes God consents to problems with our children so that we will depend on him. Sometimes God uses a crippling disease, a stroke, a cancer, a near fatal heart attack in our life so that we will learn to trust in him. God doesn't like to see us suffer. Yet, he will use all this if he has to. And, perhaps he already has for some of us here.

Pastor Dale

Sermon Nuggets Thurs Oct 18 

Gen 32: 29 Jacob said, “Please tell me your name.”
But he replied, “Why do you ask my name?” Then he blessed him there.
30 So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “It is because I saw God face to face, and yet my life was spared.”


Facing His Faith.

We don’t usually see God as our contender. He is a benign friendly, loving, heavenly father to whom we turn when things get rough. Jacob believed in God. He used God to do what he thought God wanted him to do. He had been using God all his life, but like in our lives he needed another important lesson for his faith growth. There are experiences in our lives which so changes our understanding of ourselves and God that we live a different life. That happened to Jacob. God was more important to him now.

Have you ever been in a place so desperate - where you needed an answer so badly- that you felt like you couldn't get up off your knees until you had a sense of relief and peace? We want our answers quickly and easily. We don’t like the idea of a struggle. Our trouble is we’re used to wrestling in a lighter weight class. We can pin down most of the lightweight stuff pretty easy. We spend a little bit of time in prayer here and there and put a headlock on the small problems. But sooner or later, something big will face us and we find out we’re way out of shape. Wrestling with all that light stuff didn’t get us prepared. When we face a heavy weight problem we can’t expect the quick and easy victories we had before.

 Jacob faced life pretty much on his own acknowledging God’s help before, but now he needed more than God’s help. He needed to stop using God and letting God use him.

Finally, Jacob had come to realize that the only important thing in life is to be blessed of God. In the words of Proverbs, “It is the blessing of the LORD that makes rich, and he adds no sorrow to it” (Proverbs 10:22).

Esau could neither provide nor prevent the blessing of God. It was not Esau that stood in the way of Jacob’s blessing in the land of Canaan. It was Jacob himself, who by means of his trickery and treachery, his cunning and deceit attempted to produce spiritual blessings through carnal means. The blessing of God must be obtained from God himself
Do you realize that Jacob would have received the birthright and blessing anyway…that he didn’t even need to steal it? How do I know that? God spoke it when Rebekah became pregnant with Jacob and Esau. Genesis 25:21-23. These two brothers were already fighting inside their mother and Rebekah inquired of the Lord, “Why is this happening to me?” And God answered, “Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be separated; one will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.”
           
There it is! I don’t know how it would have happened but Jacob would have received the blessing/birthright some other way if he and his mother had waited for God to work things out His way, in His time! All the lying, cheating, deceiving…running, hiding, living in fear…guilt, separation from his family…all of it was completely avoidable. It was self-inflicted pain.

Having prevailed with God, Jacob was assured of victory no matter what opposition men might offer. This certainly and specifically included Esau. In the words of the apostle Paul: “If God is for us, who is against us?” (Romans 8:31). If God is on our side, we cannot be overcome. This is what verse 28 was intended to convey to Jacob. In learning how to prevail with God, Jacob had also found God’s means of prevailing with men. But in the end it was God and only God that mattered for his life.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Fri Oct 19

Gen 32: 31 The sun rose above him as he passed Peniel, and he was limping because of his hip. 32 Therefore to this day the Israelites do not eat the tendon attached to the socket of the hip, because the socket of Jacob’s hip was touched near the tendon.

 Facing His Future

            The final picture is of the patriarch limping forward to meet Esau, limping because of the wound inflicted on his hip. It is a strong picture for now Jacob is moving forward at the command and in the power of God, not himself. This is the significance of his new name. Before Jacob mean heel grasper, and cheat, supplanter. Now his new name is Israel. He is striven, or struggled with God. He surrenders himself and able to go in the new strength as God’s man.

            The picture of the limping Jacob describes us. We limp as far as our own strength is concerned in the world eyes we are cripples. For Gods strength is made perfect in our weakness and when we are weak then he is strong and in that He is invincible. So may it be. It’s not always easy. It’s not intended to be. That limp throughout Jacobs life was no doubt like the thorn in the flesh in Paul’s life. It may have been a physical reminder of  many crippling decisions he had made when he insisted on doing things his way. Or it may have been the realization that we cannot go on our strength but in our weaknesses God makes us strong. It isn’t in our power but in our humility that future is bright. It isn't in our striving, but in our willingness to be open to His blessings that we find peace and a future.

        God wants to change you. He does not wish for you all the pain that comes from choosing your own way. He wants to bless you. You don’t have to fight for it…just obey. He wants to change your name – to write His name upon your heart. Jacob walked away from that place with a most unusual story. He had finally realized his dependence on the God who had continued to bless him. Are you depending on God?
       
            Bill McCartney from Promise Keepers tells of an experience in his book “Sold Out” He spoke at a large arena and when he stepped off stage he began asking his friends how he had done. There were high five’s, back slaps, encouraging compliments that he had hit a home run. He as quite pleased with himself.

            The next morning he went to his knees and writes ‘God wasn’t to be found.’
             “Lord where are you? I rose early to meet with You. I spoke of your wonder and glory last night I praised you with all of my heart. I thought You would be pleased. What have I done? Where are you?”
           
            In that very instant, He sense God asking him a Question; Last night when you finished your message why didn’t you ask Me how you did? You came to Me for anointing to speak, but you went to your friend seeking their opinions. “
           
            McCartney said it pricked his heart but it was true. He had spent week seeking Gods heart for that message at that time and the power of the Holy Sprit fell on the area. Not because of anything he said, but because God showed up. And yet when it was over who gets the credit and to whom does he go. The only one I've ever needed to please was God.’

The lesson for us is the same. Our warfare is a spiritual one and it cannot be won by carnal means. “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.”

            But how do we prevail with God? We must come to the place of recognizing our own inadequacy and helplessness. We must come to the end of ourselves and recognize the futility of our own plans. We must trust in that which God has promised to do. Jacob did not prevail with God in some new and uncharted path. God had already promised in the Word to bless him, but now it needed to be done God’s way, not man’s way. That is how you face 2001. Lord here I am. Now do with me as you will for your glory and my blessing and if it takes a touched hip, or a broken spirit, so Lord, have your way with me.

            Sometimes the only way to get rid of our fears is to finally face up to the weaknesses within us. Face up to your frailty. Face up to your Faith and face up to your future. He can cause “old things to pass away.” You can become a new and different person. These experiences may be God’s way to give you a new life in facing a new year. Let Him have his way with you.

Pastor Dale