Friday, August 31, 2012

Following Abraham's Footsteps Genesis 26


Sermon Nuggets Mon August 27 

Gen 26: Stay in this land for a while, and I will be with you and will bless you. For to you and your descendants I will give all these lands and will confirm the oath I swore to your father Abraham. 

Following in Father’s Footsteps                                

            One young father left his house to walk to the bar. It was winter time and he left his footprints in the snow. He heard a noise behind him and turned around only to find his son placing one foot after another in his dad’s footprint.  ‘What are you doing?’ he asks his pajama clad youngster. “Daddy, I’m following in your footsteps.”

            The dad told him to go back into the house. As he continued on the way he realized where those footprints were leading and wondered if that’s where he wanted his son to be. He returned back into the house mindful that parents do lay down paths for kids to follow whether we mean to or not.
                       
                        Search institute reported from a survey conducted in the Braham High School. It has identified 40 positive assets and values that are important in developing character and adjustment as a meaningful member of society.. Kids with over 30 of the 40 assets do very well in adjustment to society as a responsible citizen. The results of this survey showed some sobering statistics. There were many positive signs among some students, but many concerns that are exhibited as well. As we talked there was an agreement among the pastors that there were no fast and quick answers. We needed the power of God and commitment to pray together for our community. I hope that you feel burdened to pray for our young people.

            What also became apparent to us was that we have more of an adult problem than a kid problem because much of what we see demonstrated stems from home and family life. We have witnessed parents cursing their children, telling them they are no good. Only 20 % of those surveyed feel as if the school cares. Only 48% say they have a significant adult role model. What we see happening is that we are slowing seeing the results of a society that has little time for God and what He says will make a blessed and happy life, and trading it in with lies from the world.

            11% of the sixth grade class last year admitted to either having tried or seriously considered suicide.  Dear people we need to look inward and ask God what part we as a church, community and parents play in being an example. We need to confess where we have done wrong and seek Gods’ help in changing.

As we look at Isaac’s life now we see how much he followed in the footsteps of his father Abraham. We look at the importance of the footprints we leave behind.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Tues Aug 28 

Gen 26: Now there was a famine in the land —besides the earlier famine of Abraham’s time—and Isaac went to Abimelech king of the Philistines in Gerar. The Lord appeared to Isaac and said, “Do not go down to Egypt; live in the land where I tell you to live.Stay in this land for a while, and I will be with you and will bless you. For to you and your descendants I will give all these lands and will confirm the oath I swore to your father Abraham. I will make your descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and will give them all these lands, and through your offspring all nations on earth will be blessed, because Abraham obeyed me and kept my requirements, my commands, my decrees and my laws. ” So Isaac stayed in Gerar.

Footprints Resting in the Will of God-  

            In the passage we read God gives Isaac a direction and revelation of his will. The account begins with a famine similar to the one which induced Abraham to leave the land of Canaan and go to Egypt.

Let’s face it regardless of how good things go there will be hard times that come upon us. Famine is one thing over which we have no control. Famine examples in the Bible is frequently associated with faith, at least figuratively. In fact, you cannot be a man or woman of faith and not have famines or dry times in your life. There are times when, for no particular reason that you can think of when things begin to go wrong-you feel barren and fruitless, feel that God is not accessible, that he does not care. Everyone goes through these times. It was true in the life of Abraham, and true in the life of Isaac.

Isaac followed the precedent his father Abraham set. He started to go to Egypt. It seemed the thing to do. There were resources in Egypt, for, unlike Canaan, Egypt was not dependent upon rain. Its economy was based on the annual flooding of the Nile, and often Egypt had supplies of grain when no other part of the Near East could feed its people. So Isaac left the land.  It seemed the reasonable thing to do to meet needs, but it wasn’t God’s will for his life.

God tells us that he is going to supply our needs according to his riches in glory. But when a time of pressure comes, when famine strikes us, immediately we begin to look around for an alternative to faith, and we forget that God is true to his word. Now God gives again to Isaac what his will is. He was to stay in the land and trust the Lord to provide. He was given the same word already promised to Abraham. Now obey, like Dad.

While we were traveling one summer we listened to audio books in the car. One book was one of C.S. Lewis' novels, The Silver Chair, from the Narnia series. Many of you are familiar with they way he weaves in Biblical theme through the mystical land of Narnia as various characters symbolize the spiritual warfare going in the Bible. In this story two children were commissioned by Aslan, the lion, to seek to find the son of King Caspian who had been lost for some years. Aslan gave the kids four signs to follow which would lead them to the prince. It was very important that they do exactly what they had been told.

“But, first, remember, remember, remember the signs. Say them to yourself when you wake in the morning and when you lie down at night, and when you wake in the middle of the night. And whatever strange things may happen to you, let nothing turn your mind from following the signs. And secondly, I give you a warning. Here on the mountain I have spoken to you clearly; I will not often do so down in Narnia. Here on the mountain, the air is clear and your mind is clear; as you drop down into Narnia, the air will thicken. Take great care that it does not confuse your mind. And the signs which you have learned here will not look at all as you expect them to look, when you meet them there. That is why it is so important to know them by heart and pay no attention to appearances. Remember the signs and believe the signs. Nothing else matters."

Well, they did have trouble following the will of the lion just like we do now. We have the revealed word of God. We have the fellowship of believers. We have the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, but we live in a world which is satanically full of smog. The air is thick in the valleys of Narnia. And it is easy to forget the truth which is revealed in a clear and unmistakable way on the mountain. Therefore we need to go back again and again and again to the promises-rehearse them, remember them, cling to them. "Remember the signs...nothing else matters."

Isaac forgot the signs, and he fled away from the promised land toward Egypt. So God gives him a clear direction of his will.

“Isaac I told you once this is the land I have for you. Now stay here and I will bless you.” Gerar also was a place of his childhood home. Abraham and his family were close to the royal family, and it was from a former Abimelech (which appears to be a title, like Pharaoh or Caesar) that Abraham received the deed to certain parcels of land near Gerar, and the right to dig wells and maintain them. So Isaac had the right to settle there, and felt comfortable with these people.

Now Isaac could rest in the will of God. He could have peace that every thing would turn out alright because he had a promise from God and He was in God’s hands. That is the solution to our famines. Go to the word and trust and believe that God will do what he says he will do. In that will we will have peace.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Weds Aug 29 

Gen 26:7-10 When the men of that place asked him about his wife, he said, “She is my sister, ” because he was afraid to say, “She is my wife.” He thought, “The men of this place might kill me on account of Rebekah, because she is beautiful.”
When Isaac had been there a long time, Abimelech king of the Philistines looked down from a window and saw Isaac caressing his wife Rebekah. So Abimelech summoned Isaac and said, “She is really your wife! Why did you say, ‘She is my sister’? ”
Isaac answered him, “Because I thought I might lose my life on account of her.”
10 Then Abimelech said, “What is this you have done to us? One of the men might well have slept with your wife, and you would have brought guilt upon us.”


Footprints Reacting in the Fear of Man-   

We realize that just like his father Abraham, Isaac is now following in the same footsteps that are led by fear instead of faith, of selfishness instead of purity. Just like Abraham, a number of years earlier, told the older Abimelech that Sarai was his sister, so now Isaac is telling he people under the leadership of Abimelech the younger that Rebekah is his sister.

Those women are very beautiful. I am impressed that both women are older, but real knock outs. Both husbands feared for their lives believing that if the Philestines knew they were their wives they would be killed so they could take these women as their own. Can you imagine the danger these husbands put their wives under? That certainly is not faith. He is not taking the responsibility to love, cherish and protect.

Even when you are walking in the will of God you can still fall back in other areas in the flesh and in fear.  The things you say you will not do you end up doing. Even though Isaac was in the place God wanted him to be, he was not living like her should.
That fear was seen in his father. This is a sobering thought for those of us who are fathers: our children will face fears, and commit mistakes and be sinful just like we were because all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. Even as Christians we will sin and should not be surprised when our children will learn the lessons the same hard way we do.

Abimelech saw clearly that had any man taken Isaac's wife, he would have been guilty of adultery. We often think of the Israelites as living in an island of morality surrounded by a sea of gross immorality. But that was not always the case. Many times in Scripture we find people outside of Israel rebuking the patriarchs for their moral failures.
I wonder if Abimelech didn’t also learn this from his father. His father had a very great regard for Abraham and his family. He no doubt heard the stories about how his God provided and protected and blessed and they wanted a good relationships. He no doubt also got from his father, how you should take another’s wife and He made that a law.                            He learned Rebekah was Isaac’s wife when he observed their private moments. He knew brothers don’t treat their sisters in that romantic manner and therefore confronted Isaac and warned his people, as God once again protected the women from danger.

            Why do we have such a hassle when it comes to a judge putting up the 10 commandments in his courthouse? Why does the nation rise up and scream this is wrong. Does not Scripture teach us that even when the ungodly follow the ways of the Lord in life, even if they do not accept Christ, it will still go better for them?
           
As we have been seeing in the film series “Speechless” being shown during Sunday School reactions in our political correct society will attack any public reference to God or the moral teachings from the Bible. The homosexual coalition has put pressure on companies, like Chick-fil-a to be quiet about their support for traditional marriage, and pressure other companies, like Home Depot to give large donations to their cause. People that express disapproval against sin soon  must find themselves the object of ridicule and harassment. We see the television programs continually being replaced by vulgar and offensive shows. The increase in the last couple of years of nudity on prime time TV has increased over 400%. In spite of voices of  parents protesting in favor of censorship and want trash off the air the network officials claim freedom of speech allows and even promotes the rights of views of lewd behavior to be broadcast. There is something amazingly confusing that Hollywood can censor people who stand up for moral behavior, but promote violence, explicit sex and say we must be broad minded about this. There used to be a national respect for things of God even though people were not Christians, No more. It is an offense to our society, and we are paying the consequences and people are wondering why.

Isaac was  reacting to the fear of men. It is about time we stand up and be ridiculed for righteousness sake, and repent of our sins of silence and indeed of even participating in evil and calling it good, because we do not want to offend anyone. Our job is it to save our society. For to say no more is also an act of love.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Thurs Aug 30 

Verses Gen 26: 12 Isaac planted crops in that land and the same year reaped a hundredfold, because the Lord blessed him. 13 The man became rich, and his wealth continued to grow until he became very wealthy. 14 He had so many flocks and herds and servants that the Philistines envied him. 15 So all the wells that his father’s servants had dug in the time of his father Abraham, the Philistines stopped up, filling them with earth.
16 Then Abimelech said to Isaac, “Move away from us; you have become too powerful for us.”
17 So Isaac moved away from there and encamped in the Valley of Gerar and settled there. 18 Isaac reopened the wells that had been dug in the time of his father Abraham, which the Philistines had stopped up after Abraham died, and he gave them the same names his father had given them.
19 Isaac’s servants dug in the valley and discovered a well of fresh water there. 20 But the herdsmen of Gerar quarreled with Isaac’s herdsmen and said, “The water is ours!” So he named the well Esek, because they disputed with him. 21 Then they dug another well, but they quarreled over that one also; so he named it Sitnah. 22 He moved on from there and dug another well, and no one quarreled over it. He named it Rehoboth, saying, “Now the Lord has given us room and we will flourish in the land.”
23 From there he went up to Beersheba. 24 That night the Lord appeared to him and said, “I am the God of your father Abraham. Do not be afraid, for I am with you; I will bless you and will increase the number of your descendants for the sake of my servant Abraham.”
25 Isaac built an altar there and called on the name of the Lord. There he pitched his tent, and there his servants dug a well.

Footprints Reaping in the Blessing of God- 
           
Just like God protected Sarai from harm, so God protected Rebekah from harm. Both father and son in their respective generations were rebuked by the Kings for their lying. And they go back to live life the way God intended and get this; God blesses them for returning to faith. There is blessing on the way back to God.

            There are people Satan wants to believe that when you have blown it and failed that God is done with you. You’ve had your chance now there is no more. If there is anything you see the in Old Testament stories it is the patience and long suffering of God who wants us to come back to reap his blessings.

            Now if I were a preacher of wealth and health this would be a key passage I would point everyone to and say blessings dear people mean that God will make you wealthy. Look what happened to Isaac when he repented and returned to the Lord. Repent and turn to the Lord and you will find more money than what you know what to do with.

            When we look at the Word we want it to say what it says not what we want it to say. What does it say? Isaac did his part. He worked the land, got the seed, planted the crops- blessing doesn’t just fall on our laps, without responsibility to show our faith and our part in depending on God. What we don’t have control over is how fruitful the crops are going to be, how cooperative the weather. How the machines stand up with appropriate maintenance. I don’t know how wealthy Isaac got, but with wealth comes power and influence and that is what concerned the people living around him. Jealousy crept in and they didn’t want him around. They tried to outdo Isaac and it didn’t happen.

            Now there was vandalism done to the wells, and no doubt racial slurs that happen with jealousy. The complaints came even from the King who should have known better, but it was clear- It’s time to leave.

            There is a hymn we sing. Count your many blessing name them one by one. Count your many blessings and see what God has done.

            Isaac lived in a culture where wealth was a sign of divine blessing to the people around. I am wondering if that wasn’t why God gave materially, with crops, and servants, and hired hands- so the people could see the work of God in his life.

            Although Abraham was a warrior when it came to protecting his rights, he gave up his rights to Lot and his family when there would be a family quarrel and tension among the servants. Isaac now finds these very wells are becoming a problem once again only this time with his neighbors who are jealous of his wealth.

In the first case his herdsmen found a well that belonged to Abraham, removed the dirt and debris from the well, and found a fresh spring. And it was theirs. These wells belonged to Isaac. He had every right to these wells. Abraham had secured them through a treaty with Abimelech, and Isaac bore the title deed to these wells and the parcels of land which went with them But Abimelech's herdsmen quarreled with Isaac's herdsmen, so Isaac abandoned the well.

Well digging in that part of the country is no insignificant task. Water lies 40 or 50 feet beneath the surface, and usually the digging is through many feet of hard rock. So it is one thing to find a well which already has been dug and remove the dirt. It is quite another to dig a new well. Isaac did not know if he could find another well, but he abandoned this one. He called it "Esek", meaning, "injustice. He could have kept it--either by force, or by insisting upon his rights--but he did neither. The account also says that Isaac was stronger than the Philistines. He could have taken these wells at any time and held them. But he chose not to. They were his by right, but he chose not to defend his rights.

He moved about fifteen miles away in the valley of Gerar and dug another well. The Philistines contested this one, too, so he called it "Sitnah" or "adversity". Our word "Satan", or "adversary", comes from it. He did not fight over this well, either; he left it and went to another place and dug another well. By this time he was about 25 miles away from Gerar, and the herdsmen of Abimelech left him alone. He named this well "Rehoboth," "broad place"--"because," he said, "at last the Lord has brought us into a broad place, has made room for us." He could have fought for his rights, but he did not; he laid them aside. He let the Lord fight for him, and the Lord brought him into a broad place.

While Isaac may not have realized it for some time, it was the disputes over the ownership of the wells he dug or reopened that served to guide him in the direction of the land of promise.

Notice up to this time Isaac’s decision as to where he should stay was based upon the finding of abundant water and the absence of hostilities. But now we are told that he moved on to Beersheba, with no reason stated for this move.  Beersheba was the first place that Abraham had gone with Isaac after they came down from the “sacrifice” on Mount Moriah God had been guiding him back to the land of promise, back to those places where Abraham had walked in fellowship with God. The decision was shown to be the right one, for God immediately spoke words of reassurance: vs. 24.

Notice especially the order in which Isaac set up residence in Beersheba: First he  built an altar there and called upon the name of the LORD, secondly he pitched his tent there; and lastly his servants dug a well v25.

Previously the touchstone for knowing the will of God had been circumstances—in particular, Isaac stayed wherever he dug a well, found sufficient water, and was not opposed. Yet in this verse the sequence of events is reversed. The place for God’s people is the place of God’s presence. The place of intimacy, worship, and communion with God is the place to be. Material needs are thus considered last, while spiritual needs are primary. But seek first His kingdom, and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added to you (Matthew 6:33).

We have rights, legitimate rights which often are taken from us by oppression and injustice and adversity. And if we fight for them and insist upon them, we create havoc, and destroy relationships in the process. We may get what we want, or at least partially what we want, but what a wake of wreckage and destruction we leave behind! Isaac did not fight for his rights, and God supplied his needs.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Fri Aug 31

Verses: Gen 26:26-3426 Meanwhile, Abimelech had come to him from Gerar, with Ahuzzath his personal adviser and Phicol the commander of his forces.27 Isaac asked them, “Why have you come to me, since you were hostile to me and sent me away?”
28 They answered, “We saw clearly that the Lord was with you; so we said, ‘There ought to be a sworn agreement between us’—between us and you. Let us make a treaty with you 29 that you will do us no harm, just as we did not molest you but always treated you well and sent you away in peace. And now you are blessed by the Lord.”
30 Isaac then made a feast for them, and they ate and drank. 31 Early the next morning the men swore an oath to each other. Then Isaac sent them on their way, and they left him in peace.
32 That day Isaac’s servants came and told him about the well they had dug. They said, “We’ve found water!” 33 He called it Shibah, and to this day the name of the town has been Beersheba.
34 When Esau was forty years old, he married Judith daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and also Basemath daughter of Elon the Hittite. 35 They were a source of grief to Isaac and Rebekah.


Footsteps Revealing the Work of God

God supplied Isaac's needs out of his riches in glory. The people saw how Isaac reacted. Instead of fighting he was willing to leave things up to God and God continued to bless in such a way the people realized it was God’s doing. They came to ask forgiveness and make amends and form a treaty of peace. Should Isaac forgive or not? What would you do? Isaac signed the treaty and the peace was greater than just not fighting anymore.

            Jesus said it, “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.”  If the Lord forgives us our debt of ten thousand talents, we must be willing to forgive our fellow-servant his debt of a hundred pence. If any of you have had a squabble with any other remember the rights that are given over to God. And the forgiveness that is granted. How can you do otherwise having received blessing and grace of God in your lives? 

If you are going to pick friends the best ones to pick are those who are friends of God. Abimelech was not dumb. He reasoned “If God is with him, I better be too.”

I believe that God has much to teach us by observing that Isaac’s life as he followed in the footsteps of his father. Both rested in the will of God, reacted in the fear of man, received the blessing of God, released rights to God, and realized their witness to others about God. The similarities seem to go on and on.

There is a process, a long and extensive one, which God uses to bring a person first to Himself and then to maturity. It began for Abraham and Isaac in a covenant relationship with God. For Christians today it is the new covenant instituted by our Lord Jesus Christ when He shed His blood on the cross of Calvary in order to provide for our forgiveness of sins and for our salvation: This new covenant is in Christ’s blood by death.

Everyone must begin his relationship at this very place, the place of personal relationship with God through acceptance of the covenant He has offered. And from this beginning we embark upon a spiritual voyage that is, in many ways, very similar to that of Abraham and Isaac. When we are able to look back over our lives from the vantage point of eternity and see the footprints we leave I wonder how much they are in the imprints left by our patriarchs. Times of fear, times of sin, times of renewal, times when in maturity we give our rights to God

The way we can best help our own children is by making certain that our footsteps are such that we would want our children to walk in them. If Isaac’s experience was, to some degree, a reflection of his father’s life, what a frightening thought that is. If our children’s lives are to mirror our own, what an awesome responsibility we have as parents to walk a path of obedience and submission to the will of God.

 The root sin, as I perceive it, was unbelief or lack of faith. In each case of deception, Abraham and Isaac lied out of fear. This fear was the result of an inadequate concept of God. They did not grasp the sovereignty or the omnipotence of God in such a way as to believe that God could protect them under any and every circumstance.

God’s desire is blessing dear people. It is not that you will be wealthy necessarily in the things of this world. Too often those things keep our focus off of God and our ourselves. Often His intent through the famines and through the oppositions make us more dependent upon Him that we might be usable for His service as a witness to others of the greatness of our God. And that our children follow us in that blessing.

In time in all of life we can see the work of God in his grace, love, discipline and mercy.

Pastor Dale

Friday, August 24, 2012

Grandchildren of Abraham Genesis 25


Sermon Nuggets Mon Aug 20, Grandchildren

Gen 25: 1-5 Abraham took another wife, whose name was Keturah. She bore him Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak and Shuah.Jokshan was the father of Sheba and Dedan; the descendants of Dedan were the Asshurites, the Letushites and the Leummites.The sons of Midian were Ephah, Epher, Hanoch, Abida and Eldaah. All these were descendants of Keturah.
   5 Abraham left everything he owned to Isaac. But while he was still living, he gave gifts to the sons of his concubines and sent them away from his son Isaac to the land of the east.

Grandkids, the next Generation                                            

            One day a little girl was sitting and watching her mother do the dishes. She noticed several strands of white hair sticking out from her dark hair. She asked, “Why are some of your hairs white, Mom?” She replied, “Well every time you do something wrong and make me cry or unhappy, one of my hairs turns white.” The little girl thought about this for a while and said, “Momma, how come all of grandma’s hairs are white?”    
As most of you know Judi and I are grandparents and have the delight to regularly have Madelyn overnight. She is under a year so it is a treat to have her want to climb on our laps and give hugs. There is a special bond between many grandparents and grandkids.  Many grandparents will say “If I knew that having grandkids was so much fun I would have had them first.’ Someone told me why grandparents and grandkids tend to get along so well. They have a common enemy.
            Even though we are looking at the life of the patriarchs now in our series on Genesis, we come now to the death of Abraham and the stories of his son Isaac and grandson,  Jacob.
            Remember the main promise God gave to Abraham  Gen 18:17-19? All children are blessings from God to parents, but more so a blessing to Abraham because the promise of descendents was given to Abraham and Sarah. We saw the anguish of Sarah when she was childless. We saw how desperate Abraham and Sarah were to fulfill the promise of having kids by using Hagar the slave woman to give birth to a son. But when the Isaac, promised son finally came to them, they rejoiced with laughter in their old age. 
            Notice at the end of Abraham’s life there are two sons representing two nationalities as we see the Old Testament unfold- the Arabs and the Jews. However you might be surprised to find Abraham had others sons. As we look at the passage we see that God gave more children to Abraham than just the two. Those who are mentioned here would have had to have been born to a man at least 140 years old if Abraham married Keturah after Sarah died and Isaac was married to Rebekah. These children listed in verse 3 would have been more of a miracle than Isaac.
            Some people wonder why she is referred to as a wife in verse 1 and apparently a concubine in verse 6.  I Chron 1:32 also identifies his concubine as Katurah. A concubine held a position somewhat above that of a slave, yet she was not free, nor did she have the status or rights of a wife.
            Now different people will speculate. One says Abraham had a concubine on the side during all this time and now she and the children are mentioned at they end of his life. Hardly seems to fit the context when Ishmael was born and God sternly rebuked their lack of faith and renounced their sin and disobedience. Ishmael, the first born of Abraham was his delight. And afterwards this couple waited for the promised one. 
            Another side of the argument asks the obvious. Why would the Bible make such a point of  Isaac being born long after reproduction was dead in the body. Paul referred to Abraham as being “as good as dead” (Romans 4:19) so far as bearing children was concerned. Wouldn’t it be more so if Abraham was not only 100 but 140 years old when he started having another family with another wife?
            Some speculate that God preformed more miracles by letting Abraham have children up to his death of 175 years old with his a slave woman that he treated as his wife, though she was a concubine, or mistress. That’s possible, but it seems odd that Abraham is applauded more for his faith in later years than early ones and completely ignore God’s desire for purity.
I agree with those who suggest was probably the slave that took Hagar’s place, but as a foreigner she was not from the heritage of Ur like Rebekah and Sarah were. Therefore Katurah and her sons were not looked upon as proper heirs- so even though she was legally Abraham wife, in a sense they were illegitimate, not in the sexual sense, but in the divine line for they were of a different race. 
            However you want to interpret these verses the fact remains that the prophecy of God came true that as you look at those lists other nations came about in his descendents.
Ishmael the father of Arab nations; Esau the Edomites, Jacob the father of the Jews, or Israelites, And these grandkids were identified as beginning Midianites, and Letushites, and Asshurites. Indeed, Abraham was the father of many nations. Thus the promise to Abraham in Genesis 17:4 was fulfilled: “As for Me, behold, My covenant is with you, And you shall be the father of a multitude of nations.”
After a rich and full life Abraham died at the age of 175. This, too, was in fulfillment of the word of God to Abraham: “And as for you, you shall go to your fathers in peace; you shall be buried at a good old age” (Genesis 15:15).

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Tues Aug 21 Physical Blessing

Gen 25: Altogether, Abraham lived a hundred and seventy-five years. Then Abraham breathed his last and died at a good old age, an old man and full of years; and he was gathered to his people. His sons Isaac and Ishmael buried him in the cave of Machpelahnear Mamre, in the field of Ephron son of Zohar the Hittite, 10 the field Abraham had bought from the Hittites. There Abraham was buried with his wife Sarah. 11 After Abraham’s death, God blessed his son Isaac, who then lived near Beer Lahai Roi.
          12 This is the account of Abraham’s son Ishmael, whom Sarah’s maidservant, Hagar the Egyptian, bore to Abraham. 13 These are the names of the sons of Ishmael, listed in the order of their birth: Nebaioth the firstborn of Ishmael, Kedar, Adbeel, Mibsam, 14 Mishma, Dumah, Massa, 15 Hadad, Tema, Jetur, Naphish and Kedemah. 16 These were the sons of Ishmael, and these are the names of the twelve tribal rulers according to their settlements and camps.
            17 Altogether, Ishmael lived a hundred and thirty-seven years. He breathed his last and died, and he was gathered to his people. 18 His descendants settled in the area from Havilah to Shur, near the border of Egypt, as you go toward Asshur. And they lived in hostility toward all their brothers.

There is a Physical Blessing

I am seen many pictures where grandma and grandpa are sittingin the middle of a group of people comprised of their adult children, their spouses, and dozens of kids who are their grandchildren and great grandchildren. The comment is often made that from those two came generations of people. With a glow people not only point out how they are related but the blessing of family.

Families tend to gather for weddings, funerals, and family reunions. Ishmael did return to bury his father in cooperation with Isaac. They buried him in the cave of Machpelah in the field that Abraham had purchased for Sarah, himself, and their descendants.
           
Now the point of this passage is the result of physical blessings promised by God. Having kids and grandkids is a gift from God. The Bible tells us no one is an accident. No one is a mistake. Each birth is a creation of God, but to Abraham this blessing is especially meaningful because he is not only way to old for having children, but when most are dying Abraham is demonstrating the promise of God in personally beginning the descendents of the nations.

Ishmael was the father of twelve princes who settled vast territories and founded cities. He lived in defiance of his relatives, refusing to be put down, despite his impoverish beginnings. Abraham had always had a special place in his heart for his first son Ishmael. Only with reluctance and under great pressure did Abraham send this son away. Abraham would have been content for God’s purposes and promises to have been fulfilled in Ishmael. He petitioned God to look with favor upon this boy. God refused to substitute this child of self-effort for the child of promise, but He did promise to make him a great nation. And this passage shows the physical blessing.

In this verse one more promise is shown to be fulfilled, the promise God made to Hagar years before: “And he will be a wild donkey of a man, His hand will be against everyone, And everyone’s hand will be against him; And he will live to the east of all his brothers.” So this foreknowledge of God was demonstrated as it came about. They fought and rebelled and did not get along.
           
Now the Bible talks about physical blessings we receive from the hand of God. Children are a physical blessing, grandchildren are a physical blessing. The food we eat the air we breathe, the work of our hands, the houses and clothes, and wives and husbands, the lands we own and the inheritances we accumulate are all referred to in Scriptures as good things. But for some people then and now the physical blessings is all the want. They do not want God. As long as they are having pleasures, and families, and money and jobs they have not need for God being first place in their lives. Most of the world experiences the physical blessings of God to various degrees, but there is something more than God wants to tell the world and chooses to do so through the testimony of his personal relationship with the Israelite people. They are to be his people and He is to be their God with no other gods before Him.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Weds August 22 Spiritual Blessing

Verses: Gen 25: 19 This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.
Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20 and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean.
  2 Isaac prayed to the Lord on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The Lord  answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant. 22 The babies jostled each other within her, and she said, “Why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the Lord.
23 The Lord said to her,“Two nations are in your womb,
    and two peoples from within you will be separated;
one people will be stronger than the other,
    and the older will serve the younger. ”
24 When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. 25 The first to come out was red, and his whole body was like a hairy garment; so they named him Esau. 26 After this, his brother came out, with his hand grasping Esau’s heel;so he was named Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when Rebekah gave birth to them.


 There is a Spiritual Blessing

The Spiritual blessing came to Isaac. God said he would have the line of Jesus Christ coming through the lineage of Isaac, but also they would on again and off again worship and obey God.

            God chose Isaac. He married the woman God intended for him. He knew that God’s promise and blessing was to him. So when Rebekah was unable to conceive, Isaac prayed that God would open Rebekah's womb.

            I suspect there were lots of questions from well meaning family members. "Don't you think it's about time to start raising a family?" They probably got more advice than they desired. But God had promised that he would bless the descendants of Abraham and Isaac was the legal heir and his wife was from the race God wanted to use as his illustration of blessing and faith. So faith was demonstrated when Isaac interceded with God on Rebekah’s behalf, and she became pregnant in answer to his prayers.

            During her pregnancy Rebekah was perplexed by the intense struggle that took place within her womb, so she inquired of God to determine the reason. And the Lord informed her she was to give birth to twins. Each of the children would be the father of a nation of people. Of these two nations, one would prevail over the other. Normally, the first-born son would have been the heir through whom the covenant blessings would have passed. While the father could designate a younger son to be the owner of the birthright, this was the exception, not the rule.

Here again we find similarities between this couple's story and that of Isaac's parents. The grandkids of Abraham was more than a physical blessing this was a spiritual blessing. Jacob and Esau would be 15 years old before grandpa would have died. He would have seen them and held them in his arms. He would have offered sacrifices of thanks to God who keeps his promises. These twins were a delight to Grandpa because of what God was doing through Sarah’s son.

Esau was born first, and he came from the womb red and hairy. The Hebrew word to describe the color of Esau sounded similar to Edom and may have prepared the way for his nickname as it was decided in verse 30. The name Esau somewhat resembles the sound of the word meaning ‘hairy.’
           
Jacob came forth from the womb grasping the heel of his brother Esau. Jacob’s name was suggested by the Hebrew word for ‘heel.’ Later events, such as the barter of the birthright in verses 27-34, indicate that the name, taken in its negative sense, referred to Jacob’s grasping and conniving nature.

When you are looking for spiritual blessing faith is involved in believing God and waiting for Him to accomplish what he wants in you life. A personal relationship with God is what he desires and that is only possible by putting your faith in Jesus Christ, the promised one all these stories point to. He is the one who died for your sins. He is the one who went without physical blessings so that you and I might have spiritual blessings, eternal blessings. God provides for us a gift, not based on our goodness, but on his.
           
Spiritual blessings continue to come after salvation as we exercise our faith by trusting God for the direction of our lives. When we turn to God for help we must trust His timing as well as His ability. Twenty years is a long time to wait to have kids after marriage, but that was what Isaac did and God proved faithful to his promise. He does not promise all couples they will have kids, but that was Isaac’s promise.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Thurs Aug 23 Prophetic Blessing

Verses Gen 25: 23-28  The Lord said to her, “Two nations are in your womb,
    and two peoples from within you will be separated; one people will be stronger than the other,  and the older will serve the younger. ”
24 When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. 25 The first to come out was red, and his whole body was like a hairy garment; so they named him Esau. 26 After this, his brother came out, with his hand grasping Esau’s heel;so he was named Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when Rebekah gave birth to them.
27 The boys grew up, and Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was a quiet man, staying among the tents. 28 Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob.


There is a Prophetic  Blessing

The prophecy in vs. 23 begins to be carried out in the rest of the chapter. It speaks of divine election. Before the birth of the children God determined that it would be the younger child who would possess the birthright and thus be the heir of Isaac so far as the covenant promises were concerned. The older, Esau, would serve the younger, Jacob. Now this had nothing to do with works. This was spoken when the twins were not yet born, and had not done anything good or bad. God wanted to use their lives and births to teach us all lessons about God. It is a prophetic blessing.

Indeed Jacob connived to take the birthright away from his older brother, but God wanted to show in lots of ways in the Bible that the first plan doesn’t work. God has a second plan up his sleeve which is better. We see that in the stories of Cain and Able, Ishmael and Isaac, law and grace, Esau and Jacob. Adam and Jesus Christ.

While we must acknowledge that God in His omniscience knew all of the deeds of both these sons from eternity past, Paul says in Romans 9 that this was God’s will.

            In addition to the election and even the circumstance surrounding the birth of the twins, three factors played heavily in the relationship of the two boys which involved some of the choices that they made as well as their differences. Esau seems to have been a masculine, outdoor-type man who loved to do the things a father could take pride in. He was a skillful hunter, and he knew how to handle himself in the outdoors. In our culture I believe Esau would have been a football hero in high school and college. He was a real macho man, the kind of son a father would swell with pride to talk about among his friends. Whereas Jacob was entirely different.

While Esau seems to have been aggressive, daring, and flamboyant, Jacob appears to be just the opposite: quiet, pensive, more interested in staying at home than in venturing out and making great physical conquests. Not that he had no ambition to get ahead, quite the contrary; but Jacob couldn’t see the sense in tracking about the wilderness just to bag some game. In the solitude of his tent Jacob could mentally reason out how to get ahead without getting his hands dirty and without taking dangerous risks.

The second factor which tended to separate the two sons was the divided loyalty between their parents. Isaac seems to have been the outdoor-type himself; at least he had an appetite for the wild game that Esau brought home. Esau was the kind of son that Isaac could proudly take with him wherever he went. Rebekah, on the other hand, favored Jacob. She probably thought Esau was crude and uncultured. Jacob was a much more refined person, gentle and kind, the type of son a mother would be proud of. Besides, Jacob probably spent more time at home than Esau did. Each parent seems to have identified too much with a particular son, thus creating divisions which would be devastating. This favoritism also brought about disharmony between Isaac and his wife in their later years. Favoritism as parents is not good.

The third factor was the underhanded means by which Jacob wrested the birthright from his brother. While Esau had been out in the field, Jacob had been at home preparing a stew. Weary and famished, though hardly at death’s door, Esau was enticed by the fragrant aroma of the meal. Esau greedily pled for some of “that red stuff.” Rather than showing kindness to his brother, Jacob saw this as an opportunity to gain the advantage. Here Jacob’s greedy, grasping disposition rose to the forefront. Without a hint of shame Jacob bartered, “… First sell me your birthright”. With this Esau’s carnal nature emerged, “… Behold, I am about to die; so of what use then is the birthright to me?” Now I don’t think Esau was starving to death on his death bed. He was impulsive wanting what he wanted now and not wait to cook up something himself because he was hungry and willing to exchange his destiny for a dinner.

Jacob made him swear a solemn oath declaring the sale of the birthright. This done, the meal was served, and Esau went on his way. Thus Esau despised his birthright” So it is that the writer to the Hebrews can speak of Esau as a man who has no appreciation whatsoever for spiritual and eternal things.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Fri Aug 24 Birthright Blessing

Verses: Gen 25: 29 Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. 30 He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.)
31 Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright. ”
32 “Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?”
33 But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob.
34 Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left.
So Esau despised his birthright.


There is a Birthright Blessing

Now here is a prophetic blessing to Jacob through the Birthright. To understand the significance of this bargain you need to know what a "birthright" meant. You would receive double the inheritance of all others. You would be the leader of the family. You would be the one through whom the promises of God would pass. Esau has a choice: should he take the food and give up the birthright, or should he hold on to this most valuable possession and go and try to find food somewhere else? Esau chooses to live for the moment and swears that the birthright now belongs to Jacob. Esau gives up all these benefits for a bowl of stew! Haven't we been known to do the same things?

Some choose the pleasures of passion over the purity of marriage. Some choose the applause of our friends rather than stand true for the Lord. Some choose what is easy over what is right. Some indulge their appetite for more stuff over the wisdom of financial responsibility. Some choose to fill their minds with garbage rather than devote their minds to the Lord. Some choose to hoard what they have rather than to reach out to the needy.

Esau had to choose between living for the moment and living for eternity. That same choice faces each of us. Every day we must choose between temporary pleasures and holiness before the Lord. Esau reminds us to keep our focus.

 The word shows us the foreknowledge, election and choice all in this one statement. Esau sold his birthright because Esau “despised his birthright”. Like Isaac, the world in which we live prefers the Esaus and dislikes the Jacobs. We are going to find later what a stinker Jacob is also. He is a sinner, selfish, conniver. But he wanted what God was offering, which was grace. Esau didn’t. I think this is also a type of embracing the birthright we have explained in the New Testament. John 1: 11-13  “He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. 12 Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God — 13 children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.”

As we witnessed awesome accomplishment by athletes of the world competing in the Olympics some were asked, “If you were offered a banned performance-enhancing substance, with two guarantees- you will not be caught, and you will win would you take it?” 195 said yes, 3 said no. Then asked,  “if you are offered a drug knowing you will not be caught and you will win every competition you enter for the next 5 years then you will die form the side effects would you take it?” More than half said yes. The desire for the immediate pleasure, fame and goal to which they all had been working is like selling your birthright for a pot of portage.

Yet sports, movies, sex, drinking, drugs, pleasures are so attractive to our society and the things of God have no draw. In spite of your sins will you give it up and go with God? Most say no. God uses this to teach us lessons. What does it profit you if you gain the whole world, gain all the gold medals, make your business flourish, become the riches person in your school, have the most popular boy or girl friend, or car whatever and lose you birthright to heaven?

I believe that just as Abraham attempted to convince God to choose Ishmael for the heir of promise, Isaac hoped that God would change His mind concerning Esau. He struggled at this point with God’s will, but don’t we all in some areas of our lives too?

Now you may not agree with me on this, but hear me out. God’s blessing to the one son still left the other to make choices for or against God. We cannot condone Jacob’s sins just because God chose to favor him. He still was wrong in some of the things he did. But he did want the gift of God and Esau didn’t. And it was a gift not based on works but based on God’s will.
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We dare not discriminate against any nation, Jewish or Gentile. We should bless the Jews and the nation Israel, but this does not necessitate our condoning that which is clearly sin. Let us remember that at this time in Israel’s history as a nation they are rejecting God and Christ, Jesus the Messiah. As a whole the Arab nations have rejected the God of the Bible for a moon god redefined by Mohammed. Many Jews and many Arab folks embrace Jesus Christ as their Lord and savior. The witness to the people of all nations is in our hands.

While we may commend the bravery of the Jews and their intestinal fortitude, let us not call evil good, or inadvertently discriminate against the Arab peoples. Some will blindly endorse every action of the nation of Israel which must be always first be questioned on biblical grounds. Without getting political there is no other country in the Middle East that honors freedom and democracy. We value that highly and there are also other reasons to make alliances.

Finally as Christians do not use shrewdness, but that is only a euphemism for unethical practices. Jacob had good ends, but did not use good means. As a believer in Christ be a person of integrity and not follow Jacobs example here. Ends do not justify the means. Jacob was one who valued the birthright. Some believers are so committed to causes they can kill abortion doctors for instance, or lie to cult members, or launder money to Christian ministries because the goal is so important. The goal is never more important than godliness  (Romans 8:29; Ephesians 4:15). Jacob was to learn that blessing resulted from prevailing with God, not prevailing over men.

We have a wonderful birthright granted to us by the grace of God in Jesus Christ. It is not by works we are saved. Even when we fall short, God keeps his promises. We do not lose our salvation. But seek to live up to the calling. Honor him with our hearts as well as with our minds, hands, and feet. As children of God we have a birthright. We have a blessing that never ends.

Pastor Dale     

Saturday, August 18, 2012

Finding a Spouse Genesis 24


Sermon Nuggets Mon Aug 13 Finding a Spouse

Verse Gen 24:1-4 Abraham was now old and well advanced in years, and the Lord had blessed him in every way. He said to the chief servantin his household, the one in charge of all that he had, “Put your hand under my thigh. I want you to swear by the Lord, the God of heaven and the God of earth, that you will not get a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I am living, but will go to my country and my own relatives and get a wife for my son Isaac.    

Finding a Spouse                               

            How do you find a spouse? I came across some interesting advice given by children. Kally age 9 tells us “You flip a nickel and heads means you stay with him and tails means you try the next one.” I can imagine 10 year old Allan has overheard some conversations at home since he gives this advise “You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming.” When asked about finding a spouse Anita age 9 writes’ Its better for girls to be single but not for boys. Boys need somebody to clean up after them”            Perhaps Kirsten age 10 is on the right track when she write, “No person really decides before they grow up who they’re going to marry. God decides it all the way before, and you got to find out later who you’re stuck with.”
            I’ve already shared some amazement in India where most of the marriages are arranged. I asked John Bushey what happens if a guy likes a girl and vice versa and they want to get married. He told me the story of one of his classmates at the university who was Hindu. He took a liking to one young lady. The family informed him that they would arrange the marriage. But he continued to contact her. One day his body was all chopped up and delivered to his house with no one claiming responsibility. Dating just isn’t done.
            The rate of divorce is greater when Western customs are practiced. Dating isn’t all it’s cracked up to be either. Many in our society think trial marriages are the way to go, but once again statistics show more people break up after living with someone than those who commit to marriage before living together. As Ann Landers said, “A marriage license is not a guarantee that the marriage is going to work, any more than a fishing license assures that you’ll catch fish. It merely gives you the legal right to try.”
Genesis 24 is the longest chapter in this book. It is devoted to finding a wife for Isaac. Some Christians think that God has only one person in the world designed to be their spouse and if they are unhappy in their marriage relationship they didn’t get the right person and should divorce and try again. That certainly is not a Biblical concept. So far as our own partners are concerned, we need to place far more emphasis upon the matter of being the right partner rather than upon finding the right partner.
Although most here are not going to be looking for a spouse, I believe there are transferable principles in terms of seeking God’s will in other matters.

Pastor Dale

Sermon Nuggets Tues Aug 14 Priority

Gen 24: The servant asked him, “What if the woman is unwilling to come back with me to this land? Shall I then take your son back to the country you came from? ”
“Make sure that you do not take my son back there,” Abraham said. “The Lord, the God of heaven, who brought me out of my father’s household and my native land and who spoke to me and promised me on oath, saying, ‘To your offspring I will give this land’ —he will send his angel before you so that you can get a wife for my son from there. If the woman is unwilling to come back with you, then you will be released from this oath of mine. Only do not take my son back there.” So the servant put his hand under the thigh of his master Abraham and swore an oath to him concerning this matter.

The Right Priorities 

When you seek to make important decisions and especially one as important as whom you are going to marry many people miss out on the most significant of priorities. What is God’s will? When Abraham realized at the age of almost 40 Isaac was to be the one who was going to produce offspring in keeping with the promise of God he wanted to be sure that God’s will was followed. First, it was important not to marry a Canaanite  woman.

I have had people asking me if the Bible teaches you should never marry someone of a different race. (I think it is perfectly fine for Swedes and Norwegians to marry.) One can easily turn to the Old Testament and show verses how the Israelites were instructed not to marry foreign spouses. But as you discover the context it was because this most significant relationship influences spiritual priorities.

There were foreign spouses who were people who believed and followed God and there was a blessing to their marriages. Rehab was both a foreigner and a sinner, as a prostitute, but was converted and honored in the lineage of Jesus. Ruth was a Moabite but in this great love story of the Old Testament she converted and followed the Lord God Jehovah and is honored in the list of women. Scripture shows clearly the priority of marriage is marrying someone who shares the same faith. Following Gods’ will allows for interracial marriages.
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The priority for Abraham was God’s word. It was to be kept obediently to have his blessing. Abraham based his request on God's promise to Him. He knew that God intended to give this land to his children. So it was God’s will for Isaac to have a wife and children. He knew that it was God's intention to judge the Canaanites. So to bring up a people unto himself he was going to start the search by looking for a spouse among his own ancestry. Certainly there were many beautiful women in that area. But Abraham knew that God had called the Jews as His special people. Isaac could not marry a Canaanite woman because it would lead to a compromise of faith. 

In addition, when we think of the right priorities Abraham instructed his servant to seek out a wife for his son with the assurance that God would give divine guidance. “His angel” would be sent on ahead to prepare the way for the servant. In the search for the right one Abraham was ready for God to open some doors and close others so to speak. Leaving the Spirit to direct us involves the circumstances also. If the women of my ancestry will not return with you, then we will have to look someplace else perhaps in a different locate, or family, or even country.

I do not know why Christians think they will find a godly mate in a singles bar or some other such place. I do not fault any Christian for attending a Christian college or attending a church group with the hope of finding a marriage partner there. If we wish a godly mate, let us look where Christians should be. If God does not provide one in this way, He can certainly do so in His own sovereign way. But it makes sense if you’re fishing to go where the right fish are.  Likewise, young people, when dating, date Christians who share the same convictions. There is a natural attraction to girls with boys and boys with girls. Being just close friends for very long begins to work on the hormones. Many people end up in a relationship that could have been prevented. Dating frequently leads to emotional involvement and physical attraction. Romantic love is a wonderful emotional feeling, but it will never sustain a marriage. Do not put yourself in a situation where romantic love can grow until you are certain that you want it to grow.

The Bible is where we get our good start when it comes to finding God's will for our lives. In the Bible we find commands and principles. If you were driving on a road and a sign said "Speed Limit 55" that would be a command. If it said "Use Caution" that would be a principle. The Bible has both kinds of directions in the Bible. God gives us certain commands. 1 Thessalonians 4:3 "It is God's will that you should be sanctified and that you should avoid sexual immorality, that each of you should learn to control his own body." 1 Thessalonians 5:18 "give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."

The commands and principles of Scripture will point us toward God's will. We find someone we are interested in but they are not believers and we fret over whether this could be the right person for us. But the Bible tells us that we should only get involved with believers. (1 Corinthians 7:39-40)

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Weds Aug 15 Prayer

Gen 24: 10 Then the servant took ten of his master’s camels and left, taking with him all kinds of good things from his master. He set out for Aram Naharaim and made his way to the town of Nahor. 11 He had the camels kneel down near the well outside the town; it was toward evening, the time the women go out to draw water.
12 Then he prayed, “O Lord, God of my master Abraham, give me success today, and show kindness to my master Abraham.13 See, I am standing beside this spring, and the daughters of the townspeople are coming out to draw water. 14 May it be that when I say to a girl, ‘Please let down your jar that I may have a drink,’ and she says, ‘Drink, and I’ll water your camels too’ —let her be the one you have chosen for your servant Isaac. By this I will know that you have shown kindness to my master.”
15 Before he had finished praying, Rebekah came out with her jar on her shoulder. She was the daughter of Bethuel son of Milcah,who was the wife of Abraham’s brother Nahor. 16 The girl was very beautiful, a virgin; no man had ever lain with her. She went down to the spring, filled her jar and came up again.
17 The servant hurried to meet her and said, “Please give me a little water from your jar.”
18 “Drink, my lord,” she said, and quickly lowered the jar to her hands and gave him a drink.
19 After she had given him a drink, she said, “I’ll draw water for your camels too, until they have finished drinking.” 20 So she quickly emptied her jar into the trough, ran back to the well to draw more water, and drew enough for all his camels. 21 Without saying a word, the man watched her closely to learn whether or not the Lord had made his journey successful.
22 When the camels had finished drinking, the man took out a gold nose ring weighing a beka and two gold bracelets weighing ten shekels. 23 Then he asked, “Whose daughter are you? Please tell me, is there room in your father’s house for us to spend the night? ”

 The Right Prayer

If we want God's guidance we have to ask for it.  James tells us if "anyone lacks wisdom he should ask of God who gives to all men liberally". But we must be asking sincerely.

If the priority is seeking God’s will we are lead by his commands and principles and then appropriately directed by prayer. God’s Word give us the path to go. The leading the Holy Spirit by prayer within those clear paths makes it personal to us. For instance, God does not want everyone into full time Christian service. But by prayer and calling he does want some to serve him overseas. If that is the calling of a young man or woman then pray for a spouse that will share in that calling and commitment.

It was very important to me when I knew God was calling me to the ministry that God would provide a wife who would share Christian values, principles to be sure, but also willing to take on the unique role as a minister’s wife. That meant we both did a lot of praying.

If we truly want to find God's will we have to keep all options open. Before we can find God's will we have to trust that God's will is the best. We must understand that what God chooses is always the right choice. It is certainly true that we will never be open to God's direction until we can pray with Jesus, "not my will, but yours be done."

            This servant asked God for a specific sign. Is it appropriate to ask God for a sign? Throughout the Bible we see Biblical characters discerning God's way in many different fashions. Some had God speak directly to them in a dream or vision, Others cast lots (even the disciples in Acts 1) Some asked for other signs (Gideon Judges 6:37-40 and the fleece; Moses was given a miracle (Ex. 4); Hezekiah saw his shadow (2 Kings 20:9; ) But remember these Biblical characters did not have the advantage of God's Word or God's Spirit to guide them. Today we can check God's Word for guidance and we have God's Spirit living within us to guide us into all truth. Asking for a sign when God has spoken clearly is an act of sin . . . not faith.

I will share some personal thoughts of which you may not agree and that is okay. I have asked God for a sign. Sometimes I knew what he wanted but wanted to be sure. That was not a act of faith, but lack of faith since I sensed His Spirit. I would not get a sign, but acted on what I felt was right. Other times some important decisions were confirmed and I was affirmed that was the right thing to do.

 Look at how carefully the servant chose his sign. How could the servant determine quickly which of the girls that would soon be arriving would have the qualities necessary for Isaac? It would be necessary for him to make the first approach toward conversation, and the obvious thing would be for him to ask her for a drink of water from her pitcher. However, almost any girl, out of common courtesy, would agree to such a request as that.. If, however, she would then, offer to help in some further way, going a second mile as it were, this would definitely be a good sign. Perhaps the most severe test would be whether she was willing not only to give him some water, and perhaps even his attendants, but also his ten camels. Surely, if she would do this, without grumbling, it would go far toward proving that she was the kind of wife they were looking for.

There are other times when we "sense" God speaking to us other than signs.  We have an "impression from God." When God gives an impression He almost always also gives some verification. All impressions must be evaluated carefully by the clear and authoritative teaching of Scripture. Scripture wins over feelings. If Scripture does not speak to the issue we should check with godly friends and circumstances, all giving to God in prayer to allow Him to lead. Even without “signs” go with what you want to do after you have given it to the Lord and go with the affirmation that He can “close the door” through circumstances, and that is alright also.

What do you think?

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Thurs Aug 16 Personality

Gen 24: 15-27  16 The girl was very beautiful, a virgin; no man had ever lain with her. She went down to the spring, filled her jar and came up again.
17 The servant hurried to meet her and said, “Please give me a little water from your jar.”
18 “Drink, my lord,” she said, and quickly lowered the jar to her hands and gave him a drink.
19 After she had given him a drink, she said, “I’ll draw water for your camels too, until they have finished drinking.” 20 So she quickly emptied her jar into the trough, ran back to the well to draw more water, and drew enough for all his camels. 21 Without saying a word, the man watched her closely to learn whether or not the Lord had made his journey successful.
22 When the camels had finished drinking, the man took out a gold nose ring weighing a beka and two gold bracelets weighing ten shekels. 23 Then he asked, “Whose daughter are you? Please tell me, is there room in your father’s house for us to spend the night? ”
24 She answered him, “I am the daughter of Bethuel, the son that Milcah bore to Nahor. ” 25 And she added, “We have plenty of straw and fodder, as well as room for you to spend the night.”
26 Then the man bowed down and worshiped the Lord, 27 saying, “Praise be to the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who has not abandoned his kindness and faithfulness to my master. As for me, the Lord has led me on the journey to the house of my master’s relatives.”
28 The girl ran and told her mother’s household about these things.


The Right Personality

            Well, in making a decision like marriage I want God’s will. Be in God’s word. Be in prayer. Talk to people whom I trust that can give good advice. But I also want the right personality match.

One guy was asked why he never got married. He said, He was looking for the perfect woman. “Haven’t you find her?”

“ Yes, but unfortunately, she was looking for the perfect man”, so she kept looking.

            Let me say there is no such thing as the perfect couple because of sin. There was only one perfect couple in all of history and that was Adam and Eve. They were made for each other and lived in a perfect environment in a perfect relationship with perfect love until Satan came in and goofed everything up. Since sin came into the world marriage changed forever. From that time on there are going to be disagreements, there are going to be adjustments, there will be miscommunication, and frustrations, and all the things that are common in close relationships.
           
I think of Ruth Graham’s comments when asked if she ever considered divorcing Billy Graham. She said, “Never. I never have thought of divorce. Although, I’ve come pretty close to murder a couple of times.” 

            Don’t expect more of your mate than what God intended. Don’t expect your mate to meet all your needs. God doesn’t want your spouse to take His place and the most significant needs in your life can only be met by God not another person. There are some hobbies and interest and conversations that are better with other people. That is why God gives us friends. Don’t expect your spouse to always share your same interests-but it is good to find someone with whom you will remain faithful in love and seek to work on bettering relationship and communication if you will find meaning in your marriage.
           
Some people have the mistaken idea that they will change their fiancée after they get married. It doesn’t happen. Does the one you intend to marry and live with for the rest of your life have the personality and characteristics that you enjoy when you do the mundane things of life? Do you enjoy thing things together when you shop, when you clean house, when you make a decision on a car, or furniture for the house, or where you are going to live and how you decide on priorities for use of money?

            Now character is more important than personality. Character is what you are in your values. Personality is how that character is displayed. A person may have integrity, but be very shy. Personality might include if one is an extrovert or introvert. Character is demonstrated by humbleness. It can be demonstrated in a passive person or in an aggressive person.

Notice the character and personality of Rebekah. She was industrious, not lazy. She was willing worker. She was polite, she was respectful. She was hospitable and humble. She had a good relationship with her parents, and friends among other women and girls. She was generous and sharing. And by the way, she was beautiful. Not bad to look at.

            As Vernon would say, Lord make my wife to be beautiful and dumb. Beautiful so I can find her easy to love and dumb so she can find me easy to love. 

            When all is said and done we must walk by faith. And find that you are compatible in the important values and opinions of marriage and that you will be willing to go with the strengths of the other. If one is a better money manager than the other let that person handle the finances. If one is a better organizer than the other, give those responsibilities to that mate. If one is gifted in certain areas lead with your strengths and seek to minimize the weaknesses. And in a relationship let God do the directing. Keep your eyes wide open before you enter into the relationship and half shut afterwards.          

If we would have a godly mate we must wait for God’s time. How often I have witnessed men and women marrying hastily, fearing that the time for marriage was quickly passing them by. They married those who were unbelievers or uncommitted because they concluded that anyone was better than no one. Isaac was 40 years old when he married. It is well worth waiting for the mate of God’s choice.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Fri Aug 17 Parents

Verses Gen 24:28-33, 49-51
28 The girl ran and told her mother’s household about these things. 29 Now Rebekah had a brother named Laban, and he hurried out to the man at the spring. 30 As soon as he had seen the nose ring, and the bracelets on his sister’s arms, and had heard Rebekah tell what the man said to her, he went out to the man and found him standing by the camels near the spring. 31 “Come, you who are blessed by the Lord,” he said. “Why are you standing out here? I have prepared the house and a place for the camels.”
32 So the man went to the house, and the camels were unloaded. Straw and fodder were brought for the camels, and water for him and his men to wash their feet. 33 Then food was set before him, but he said, “I will not eat until I have told you what I have to say.”
“Then tell us,” Laban said.
49 Now if you will show kindness and faithfulness to my master, tell me; and if not, tell me, so I may know which way to turn.”
50 Laban and Bethuel answered, “This is from the Lord; we can say nothing to you one way or the other. 51 Here is Rebekah; take her and go, and let her become the wife of your master’s son, as the Lord has directed. ”


The Right Parents

            Do you notice how little Isaac had to do with the process of finding a wife? Isaac, if left to himself, may never have found Rebekah. The first pretty girl or the first woman to profess a faith in God might have seemed adequate. The servant was unwilling to settle for second rate. Not only were Abraham and his servant a part of the process, but Rebekah’s family also had to be convinced of God’s leading. Anyone who fails to heed the counsel of godly Christians who are older and wiser is on the path to heartache.

We all know that there are times when someone must stand alone to do the will of  God. There are other times when a couple feels alone when they come from families and backgrounds that care very little about spiritual things.

            But one of the big dynamics in any relationship is in laws. It is true, you do not marry only your spouse; you marry the families. Getting along with in-laws will make for a better marriage. Now don’t forget when the Bible says that a man needs to leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife that means your spouse gets first priority not your parents. Some parents have also gotten in the way of their sons and daughters relationship to their mates.

            Some of these problems can be worked out if on one side children realize experience of parents can help prevent them from making some big mistakes and get their permission and advice and blessing, but some parents will never think anyone is good enough for their child and interfere in ways that will never be healthy. The apron strings must be cut. They have under God developed their own home and as parents we love and support and guide the best we can, but mostly we give them up to the Lord with our blessing and with our permission.

            There was a marriage I was asked to do with a young couple and there was strong parental objection. I cautioned the couple and tried to do my job of showing them the reality of in-law relationship. There would have enough struggles as it was, and didn’t need that one. They chose to postpone their marriage until some of those problems could be worked out.

Here Laban her brother and Bethuel her father rejoiced in hearing about Abraham their relative and how God had led them. They were believers as well. They worshiped the Lord. It used to be the old school when the man would ask permission of the father for his daughters hand in marriage. Some people cringe at that today in our culture. But there is also something affirming when there is good relationship between the families and the I-laws. If there is concern it is better to find out why and let those with love and experience help in making such important decisions.

Notice vs. 55 they gave permission but also it is hard to say goodbye to their daughter and sister, so they asked that the girl can remain, but the servant was anxious to go. Rebekah was willing. V. 60 shows the blessing of the permission.

            If those whom love you are behind the marriage it has a much better chance of succeeding. That is true in India. The parents have the best in mind for their children usually. And in such circumstances there is desire to see their children happy. This was the situation before them. It also took trust since Rebekah had not seen Isaac yet only she heard about him.

            Seeking advice of other mature Christians is an important part of seeking God’s will. Getting advice will often times let you see options you might not have thought of before. To see the will of God listen to the others question and concerns and let them ask and reflect with you. Those who are the close to you and love you the most will give your straight advice. And when the time comes to marry as much as it is possible, do what you can to make relationship with the in laws the best they can be.

Pastor Dale


Sermon Nuggets Sat Aug 18 Pledge

Verses Gen 24: 57 Then they said, “Let’s call the girl and ask her about it.” 58 So they called Rebekah and asked her, “Will you go with this man?”
“I will go,” she said.
59 So they sent their sister Rebekah on her way, along with her nurse and Abraham’s servant and his men. 60 And they blessedRebekah and said to her,
“Our sister, may you increase
    to thousands upon thousands;
may your offspring possess
    the gates of their enemies.”
61 Then Rebekah and her maids got ready and mounted their camels and went back with the man. So the servant took Rebekah and left.
62 Now Isaac had come from Beer Lahai Roi, for he was living in the Negev. 63 He went out to the field one evening to meditate,and as he looked up, he saw camels approaching. 64 Rebekah also looked up and saw Isaac. She got down from her camel 65 and asked the servant, “Who is that man in the field coming to meet us?”
“He is my master,” the servant answered. So she took her veil and covered herself.
66 Then the servant told Isaac all he had done. 67 Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah, and he married Rebekah.So she became his wife, and he loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.


The Right Pledge


Before Abraham’s servant completed the negotiation for Rebekah to be Isaac’s wife there was consultation with the girl and we will see how Isaac responds to the mate provided. In India I asked, what if the girl or boy says no. Then almost always they have the final say. But when the pledge is made it is honored.

I would like to say when you seek the will of God and there is clear directions that it is of God go with that decision and make the very best of that decision. There is no circumstance on this earth that is without problems and struggles. I see that with some of my pastor friends when moving to a new church. They pray about going to a certain church; the church prays about finding a pastor; they believe God directs them and then there are some problems. They immediately think, “Oh, we must have made some mistake. We must not have been in God’s will.” I don’t believe that. Yes. It may be a chance for growth and maturity and learning important lessons, but if you make that pledge then make the best of it relying on God’s power to see it through.

Just like there are no perfect pastors and perfect churches, no perfect parents, no perfect children, no perfect husbands and no perfect wives, there are pledges we keep and promises we make to make such relationships godly and good. It is that commitment that God does his best work.

Rebekkah said yes; Isaac said yes. All were in agreement to the pledge. Now live up to that pledge. Do you notice that love came last, not first, in this chapter? Isaac learned to love his wife in time. Love came after marriage, not before it. That leads me to a principle which many Christian counselors often stress: Romantic love is never the basis for marriage. Marriage is the basis for romantic love.

Verse 66 may seem incidental, but I think it reports a very essential step in the process of seeking a wife for Isaac. Abraham was convinced that Isaac needed a wife like Rebekah. The servant, too, was assured that Rebekah was the one for Isaac and had succeeded in convincing her family of this fact. However, let us not overlook the fact that Isaac, too, needed to be assured that Rebekah was the woman God had provided for him.

Much is compressed into the final verse of this chapter. Isaac took Rebekah into his mother’s tent, and she became his wife. His love for her blossomed and continued to grow. His marriage gave Isaac consolation for the death of his mother.

Perhaps no Old Testament passage illustrates the guiding hand of God as well as this portion in the book of Genesis. The importance of seeking Priorities of Gods’ will through the Word, through prayer, through the leading of an angel or if you will in the New Testament the leading of the Holy Spirit, through wisdom (that was the personality issue in marriage) through advice and counsel and permission of others, and lastly in keeping the pledge and going with the decision in the power and peace of God.

Pastor Dale